Hail,
Just a brief update on Sarah for anyone who’s interested.
The main thing is the surgery is behind her, rather than ahead, and she is getting better rather than worse. It is a long process, and I think she got a little discouraged reading about the experiences of other people who had the surgery who were back at work within three weeks. I have pointed out that the surgeon said that she had one of the most advanced cases of osteo-arthritis he had seen in someone that age, that she had had pain and decreased mobility for decades before-hand, and that the views of people in the net are not a representative sample of the real world.
Anyway, small steps. She is on a tapering dose of opiates. Initially she had ice-packs, now we have moved to the topical application of cats. The main priority is keeping her mood up and making sure she does not fracture – the next six weeks are very fragile, and her bones are very thin. After that we are really hammering the vitamin D, gentle exercise and calcium – which I am suggesting will be a holiday somewhere tropical where she can eat yoghurty stuff from a tall glass and so forth. In the interim today she is going out to look at the chooks.
Obviously, a lot more has been going on - there was the surgery, we are moving house, that kind of stuff. More news later, and a return to writing soon.
John